I am not a Feminist.It's not because i don't believe in myself.I strongly believe in me and in my instincts.But i don't like to confine myself to any "isms" since i believe that no "ism" on earth can guarantee the complete freedom of thoughts, of its followers.They all create many cults which have a predefined thinking agenda and which always fail to explore the limitless expressions of the mute hearts.My heart is an outrageously energetic one who cannot be tied up and who wish to fly without wings...
You may wonder why this introduction?Well,I am sure you can understand the reason when you finish reading my blog.
I am from a beautiful country named India in the peninsula of Asia..I am a proud Indian whose head is always held high and mind fearless.I have been taught from my childhood days to do my duty without expecting the results.
"Follow the Omens
Believe your Instincts
Never Ever Compromise with ur dreams
Do your Duties &&&
LIVE LIKE A KING ..."-My motto
If this is my motto there are many factors behind its design - the way iam brought up,my parents,the books i read,my friends,my teachers and the list goes on and on and on...I always dreamt of being the king in my professional and personal life.I used to sat near the window feeling the erotic moonlight and visualizing myself as one of the top business personalities,traveling in my "Corolla",using Apple Mac book laptops,blackberry mobile etc.etc..They were the best moments of my life...
Now my parents say that i am a big girl and its time for me to get married.I wondered for many reasons.First of all i have just started my life.I would like to sit alone on a seat near the window in an Airbus and would love to travel round the world. I would love to read a 100 more books, do a 100 more paintings and dance a 100 more times in rain.
1 interesting point that i would like to mention is.....It's customary to give the bride some "tolas"of gold by the parents at the time of marriage.Ofcourse they will give whatever they can to make the life of their daughter secure.What if the bridegroom demands it? And What if they demand a "scorpio","an apartment" and a"10 lakh bank deposit".
Can you think about the plight of a father of three girls?? Better commit suicide or start smuggling...
Even that is not enough.The bride's parents must buy everything(furniture,vessels,grocery,fridge,oven,washing machine etc) to their new house.And when everything is set the newly wedded couple together with the bride's in laws will shift to the new house.Not only that,for all the functions in the first year of marriage they are responsible for presenting the couple gold and dresses.Even after all these the girl belongs to his family and have the permission to go to her home only twice or thrice an year.
How can they expect anyone at their old age?
What a business? Usually when you buy something with your money, you will be the owner of that..But here the things are different.The bride pays.Still the groom is the owner.What an injustice?If you are making it a business,apply all the rules and make it a good deal for both...;-)
Can you blame people of INDIA, if they kill a girl child at the early stage of pregnancy?
Giving birth to a girl is never a Sin.It is a BOON..
My DAD ,My MOM ..Don't get upset whatever happens I am there for you..How can i forget that without you i won't be here.....LOVE U!!
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